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HELP! I Think I'm Being Ghosted

8/11/2020

 
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Dear Fake Plastic Freeze,

If I had a nickel for every time someone ghosted me, I'd be chugging wine in a hot tub on my yacht in the south of France.

Getting ghosted is a bitch, and if what you're telling me is true, it sounds like your friend might be one also. Too harsh? Maybe, but making new friends doesn't seem like a good reason to squeeze old ones out. Is it possible that you may have said something (accidentally) that could have hurt her? Is there any reason why she would feel threatened by a friendship you have with someone else?

People avoid confrontation for all sorts of reasons: heartache, anger, frustration, fear, shame, but only your friend has the answer. My advice is to retrace your verbal steps and question if there was anything you may have said to upset her. If the answer is yes, then it might be worth sending a heartfelt letter—adorned with flowers or chocolate—to acknowledge her feelings. 

If the answer is no, then it's time to look inward. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is the best thing for us. If you have to work that hard to maintain a relationship, it may not be worth saving. Good luck figuring that shit out. ​Got a problem? Yo, I'll solve it. SUBMIT YOUR ANONYMOUS QUESTION HERE.

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